FAQs
Wait….HOW many RSVPs?
We know when you first hit that RSVP page, it can seem like a lot. We wanted to have RSVPs for all the pre-wedding get-togethers so we can ensure that everyone is accounted for.
We do not expect everyone to RSVP to everything right away, so take a look at the schedule above and see what might work. We request that RSVPs be completed by August 1, 2023. If you have any questions, please let us know!
What is the dress code for your wedding?
Come one come all, and rock your best cocktail attire! Want to join the theme? Show off your best gothic, vintage, or tiki outfit. Festive Hawaiian shirt with a suit? Love it! Vampy dress from your Hot Topic days? Bust it out!
For some nerdy and fun tropical-inspired shirts that look amazing under a blazer, check out rsvlts
Looking to get your inner goth on? Jessica loves Foxblood for ethically made, sustainable, subtle goth wear and Killstar for all your 90s Hot Topic vibes.
If you have any questions or want to know more about Gothic Tiki, feel free to reach out! We are happy to give you all the details.
Are children welcome?
Children are absolutely welcome, and all are invited, but if you would rather turn this into a date night or parental getaway…we absolutely get that. We want you to do what is best for you and your family.
While we will not have any childcare at the venue, we will have an area for the kiddos with a variety of entertainment activities for them.
Will there be vegetarian/gluten-free food options?
Absolutely! We want everyone to enjoy themselves, and that means having options for everyone. If there is anything specific you would like to know about the menu, please do not hesitate to reach out.
What is the weather like?
Seattle is a temperate climate, but that can also be slightly unpredictable in late September. The ceremony and reception are indoors with access to a patio that will be host to the amazing lawn games that Paul has MADE. You heard right…he MADE all the lawn games. Let’s keep our fingers crossed for perfect fall weather!
When should we RSVP?
We would appreciate all RSVPs being in by the 1st of August. This will allow all our vendors to fully prepare for the event. If you have any questions or need any assistance, please reach out!
What time is everything happening?
The ceremony will begin at 5PM; however, we will have a welcome reception on the patio at 4PM (weather permitting). If there is anything specific you would like to know about the schedule, please do not hesitate to reach out.
Is it OK if I take pictures?
While we request that cell phones are put away during the short ceremony, we welcome all the pictures you want during any other time of the day. If you have any questions, shoot us an email!
Is there someone I can contact if I have any other questions about the wedding?
We are happy to answer any and all questions related to the wedding! You can text the bride or groom or shoot us an email!